How To Introduce Your Lover To Swinging

Have you always liked the idea of trying swinging? You know, you and your partner exploring a few fantasies, indulging in some partner swapping, a threesome, or maybe even an orgy?

Most people have fantasies along these lines to some degree or another, but many people in a relationship run into a problem: their partner isn't interested! Perhaps even hostile.

Well rather than 'suffer in silence' there is actually a lot you can do to get your partner interested. It's not nearly as difficult as you might think!

The first thing to realise is that if you want to have a relationship strong enough to experiment with swinging and other sexual fantasies you have to build some very strong foundations. These foundations are TRUST and INTIMACY. The most successful swinging couples use such experiences as an enhancement to their relationship, never as a replacement. therefore, you need to work on your relationship first - and the swinging will follow. To create a geat sexual relationship you need the following elements:

1) Understand your partner's values. What is important to them? What qualities make up their way of viewing the world? Is it adventure, excitement or safety and security? When you know your partner's values you can express what you want in a way that will also fit in with their view of the world.

2) How do they take in information? Are you communicating with them in a way that they actually understand? We all take in information in one of three main ways - visual (what we see), auditory (what we hear) or kinesthetic (what we touch or feel). We all tend to favour one. If you know your partner's main style you can communicate with them that way - and it will be much more powerful.

If you can begin to communicate with your partner in their language they will feel much more loved by you. They will therefore trust you more - and be open to sexual exploration with you. Jealousy will not be an issue. They will feel safe and loved by you. Only then will they be able to truly open up to you sexually - and you might be surpised what emerges.

Successful swinging is always the result of a very strong relationship where communication is very deep. Focus on creating this first - by speaking your partner's language - and the sexual experimentation will follow.

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